Loving God and Neighbour v2

 

This morning we heard 2 well known stories. We all know that the Good Samaritan story means help other people, and the point of the story about Mary and Martha is to listen to Jesus and leave the dishes in the sink.

I wonder if that is all they tell us, or if there is a different purpose in these two stories.

Starting with the Good Samaritan – it is a parable, so not an actual event. Oh, and nowhere in the story is the Samaritan called good, as if Samaritans are expected to be bad.

That started me thinking: how often do we make assumptions about people based on how similar they are to us, in terms of race, gender, political and religious views, work status, postcode, dress style ….?

These assumptions devalue people, including ourselves.

I hear people talking about ‘no good’ blacks, Muslims, Indians, druggies, unemployed ….

You get the idea.

I have not found a place in the Bible where Jesus says some lives are worth more than others:

that your life is worth more than the life of a Pacific Islander,
or a person of different faith,
or someone in an unskilled job,
or a beggar,
or someone with a disability,
or even someone who has made poor life choices.  

I know some people were troubled by the Black Lives Matter movement, but the reason for the movement is because traditionally black lives have been devalued, as we have seen in the USA with the number of black people killed by police.

In the newspaper this week has been stories about aged care, asking if we do care about people living in residential aged care. We would say we do, but the conditions in some centres shows that as a society we do not.

This parable is told in response to an educated man asking Jesus about eternal life.

Jesus asks the man what he knows from scripture, and the man answers correctly:

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind.’ and, ‘Love your neighbours as much as you love yourself.’”

 That could have been the end of this story, except, the clever man asked another question: Who is my neighbour?

 As with other people who asked Jesus about the requirements for eternal life, each story ends slightly differently. Here the man asks who my neighbour is, in chapter 18 the rich young ruler is told keeping the commandments is not enough, sell everything.

As we often see with Jesus, his response to people’s questions and situations are different for each person.

 As with some other situations, I wonder how genuine this question is.

By asking: Who is my neighbour?
he is implying that some people are not his neighbours,
and therefore he does not need to love them.

I wonder if we also try to circumvent the wideness and generosity of God’s love?

 And I wondered about the questions we ask of Jesus?

“what must I do to have eternal life?”

Who are my neighbours?”

Lord, doesn’t it bother you that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself?

It reminded me of a song:

Oh Lord, won't you buy me a Mercedes Benz?

 

In the gospels Jesus is asked many questions:

Eternal life?

Who is the greatest?

Can my sons have the best seats?

Heal me?

Help me?

Have pity on me.

 

I wondered about the questions we ask God.

Like this one:  

 

this cartoon, during the sermon

http://www.jasonvalendy.net/blog/2013/3/30/the-poor-will-always-be-with-you-is-jesus-a-hypocrite

 

The clever man asked Who is my neighbour?

Then Jesus tells this parable, a scenario they would have known, of a traveller being mugged and robbed.

Who will help?

The unlikely one.

 

This parable tells us how to be neighbours, being a neighbour means accepting help from the unlikely as well as helping those in need.

Notice the person who was mugged had no say in who did or did not help him.

 Who are you willing to accept help from?

 

Then we come to Martha and Mary, in my reading this week I came across some other ways to think about this reading.

I studied Greek in my first year of college but am not an expert. I rely on Greek Interlinear Bible or people whose Greek is better than mine to look into some of the technical aspects of the readings.

 [https://www.marystromerhanson.com/blog?fbclid=IwAR2FVERJr_rxCh1aJKxdU_McBycFPccrLIlVlR1NP5SDslYe6EUyyV2PBy4 gives more detail of what follows]

 A little bit of Greek.

1.   When Martha is serving, the word is diakonian – where we get our word Deacon from. It is about ministry. She is anxious because she has so much to do – ask anyone involved in Ministry, lay or ordained, and they will know that feeling.

2.    “sitting at the Lord’s feet” isn’t a literal, physical thing — Mary wasn’t actually sitting at Jesus’ feet when this happened. Instead, this was common way of indicating discipleship. These two sisters were disciples of Jesus — Martha in the village of Bethany: Mary out with other disciples in the countryside as a traveling disciple.

3.   Some translations end with Jesus telling Martha that Mary has chosen the better part, but the Greek is the good part.
 

Jesus listens to Martha, tells her he understands, but Mary has her work and Martha has hers. It is not necessary to choose one or the other, but to follow where we are called.

This is a short passage that has been used to devalue the work of people who serve in practical ways like meals, caring for children, cleaning etc. The story is about two female disciples, fulfilling their individual callings as they are gifted. One is taking care of the sick, orphans, new believers, or whatever is required in a first century Jewish village. The other is evangelizing in the countryside.

 …

what does all this mean for us? today if we find someone lying on the side of the road, we can call an ambulance, we don’t need to carry the person to the hospital or a hotel.

And what is considered ‘women’s work’: caring for children or the elderly, cleaning, cooking etc. is still undervalued.

 One thing that stands out for me is: Love your neighbours as much as you love yourself.

Love your neighbours as much as you love yourself.

I sometimes wonder if that should be changed around to Love yourself as much as you love your neighbours.

Love yourself as much as you love your neighbours.

I wonder if Martha loved herself as much as she loved her neighbours, she would take enough of a break to feel whole, not torn in many directions.

Or ask or allow her neighbours to help.

I wonder if the clever man loved himself, he might be able to accept his imperfections.

It is hard to love our neighbours,
all of them,
the smelly and annoying,
and those who live so far away we have never met them,
when we don’t recognise our own humanity
when we don’t love ourself.

A quote from Mitzi J. Smith, Professor of New Testament, Columbia Theological Seminary

Self-love is neither egocentric nor individualistic. Self-love is not obsessed with self-preservation; it takes risks for violated, vulnerable humans living in the borderless neighbourhood we inhabit[i]

 

Do you love yourself enough to love your neighbour?

Let God love you,
let God teach you to love yourself and your neighbour.

---

[i] https://www.workingpreacher.org/commentaries/narrative-lectionary/good-samaritan-2/commentary-on-luke-1025-42-3

loving yourself and your neighbour

 

This morning we heard 2 well known stories. We all know that the Good Samaritan story means help other people, and the point of the story about Mary and Martha is to listen to Jesus and leave the dishes in the sink.

 

I wonder if that is all they tell us, or if there is a different purpose in these two stories.

 

Starting with the Good Samaritan – it is a parable, so not an actual event. Oh, and nowhere in the story is the Samaritan called good.

 

How often do we make assumptions about people based on how similar they are to us, in terms of race, gender, political and religious views, work status, postcode, dress style ….?

Do these assumptions devalue people, including ourselves? I hear people talking about ‘no good blacks, Muslims, Indians, druggies, unemployed ….

You get the idea.

I have not found a place in the Bible where Jesus says some lives are worth more than others. That your life is worth more than the life of a Pacific Islander, or a person of different faith, or someone in an unskilled job, or a beggar, or someone with a disability, or even someone who has made poor life choices.  

I know some people were troubled by Black Lives Matter, but the reason for the movement is because traditionally black lives have been devalued, as we have seen in the USA with the number of black people killed by police.

In the newspaper this week has been stories about aged care, asking if we do care about people living in residential aged care. We would say we do, but the conditions in some centres shows that as a society we do not.

 
This parable is told in response to an educated man asking Jesus about eternal life.

Jesus asks the man what he knows from scripture, and the man answers correctly:

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, strength, and mind.’ and, ‘Love your neighbours as much as you love yourself.’”

 

That could have been the end of this story, except, the clever man asked another question: Who is my neighbour?

 

As with other people who asked Jesus about the requirements for eternal life, each story ends slightly differently. Here the man asks who my neighbour is, in chapter 18 the rich young ruler is told keeping the commandments is not enough, sell everything.

As we often see with Jesus, his response to people’s questions and situations are different for each person.

 

As with some other situations, I wonder how genuine this question is. By asking: Who is my neighbour? he is implying that some people are not his neighbours, and therefore he does not need to love them.

Do we try and avoid the wideness and generosity of God’s love?

 

I wondered about the questions we ask God.

Like this one:  

 

this cartoon, during the sermon

http://www.jasonvalendy.net/blog/2013/3/30/the-poor-will-always-be-with-you-is-jesus-a-hypocrite

The clever man asked Who is my neighbour?

Then Jesus tells this parable, a scenario they would have known, of a traveller being mugged and robbed.

Who will help?

The unlikely one.

 

This parable tells us how to be neighbours, being a neighbour means accepting help from the unlikely as well as helping those in need.

Notice the person who was mugged had no say in who did or did not help him.

 

A story I read on Facebook this week, it may not be true, but I think it contains some truth. A woman had left a violent partner and moved to a new town with her children, she had a job and was staying with someone who befriended her. They shared living expenses, until one night, after taking the children to a park after school, she returns home to find the house empty.  It turned out her new ‘friend’ was evicted for not paying the rent.

They sleep in their car overnight and in the morning, she goes to a park with a toilet. The girls wait while Mum rings and tells her boss what has happened, and the boss says she will see what she can do, ring back later.

In this same park, a group of people are rummaging in garbage cans. The woman sees them talking to each other and putting money into a hat.

She uses her last ten dollars to go shopping for some food for breakfast and goes back to the park to eat.

When she rings her boss back, it is good news, they will give her her wages today, a few days early.

One of the homeless men comes to her and offers her the money, he had heard her talking to her boss, they put some money together for her.

 Who are you willing to accept help from?

 Then we come to Martha and Mary, in my reading this week I came across some other ways to think about this reading.

I studied Greek in my first year of college but am not an expert. I rely on Greek Interlinear Bible or people whose Greek is better than mine to look into some of the technical aspects of the readings.

 [https://www.marystromerhanson.com/blog?fbclid=IwAR2FVERJr_rxCh1aJKxdU_McBycFPccrLIlVlR1NP5SDslYe6EUyyV2PBy4 gives more detail of what follows]

 A little bit of Greek.

1.   When Martha is serving, the word is diakonian – where we get our word Deacon from. It is about ministry. She is anxious because she has so much to do – ask anyone involved in Ministry, lay or ordained, and they will know that feeling.

2.    “sitting at the Lord’s feet” isn’t a literal, physical thing — Mary wasn’t actually sitting at Jesus’ feet when this happened. Instead, this was common way of indicating discipleship. These two sisters were disciples of Jesus — Martha in the village of Bethany: Mary out with other disciples in the countryside as a traveling disciple.

3.   Some translations end with Jesus telling Martha that Mary has chosen the better part, but the Greek is the good portion.
 

This is a short passage that has been used to devalue the work of people who serve in practical ways like meals, caring for children, cleaning etc. The story is about two female disciples, fulfilling their individual callings as they are gifted. One is taking care of the sick, orphans, new believers, or whatever is required in a first century Jewish village. The other is evangelizing in the countryside.

that Jesus listens to Martha, tells her he understands, but Mary has her work and Martha has hers. It is not necessary to choose one or the other, but to follow where we are called.

 

…

what does all this mean for us? today if we find someone lying on the side of the road, we can call an ambulance, we don’t need to carry the person to the hospital or a hotel.

 

One thing that stands out for me is: Love your neighbours as much as you love yourself.

I sometimes wonder if that should be changed around to Love yourself as much as you love your neighbours.

I wonder if Martha loved herself as much as she loved her neighbours, she would take enough of a break to feel whole, not torn in many directions.

Or ask her neighbours for help.

I wonder if the clever man loved himself, he might be able to accept his imperfections.

 

A quote from Mitzi J. Smith, Professor of New Testament, Columbia Theological Seminary

Self-love is neither egocentric nor individualistic. Self-love is not obsessed with self-preservation; it takes risks for violated, vulnerable humans living in the borderless neighbourhood we inhabit[i]

 

Do you love yourself enough to love your neighbour?

Let God love you, let God teach you to love yourself and your neighbour.

---

[i] https://www.workingpreacher.org/commentaries/narrative-lectionary/good-samaritan-2/commentary-on-luke-1025-42-3

distractions, expectations and God's judgement

this week's newsletter column:

Our gospel reading for today is Luke 10: 38-42, Jesus is welcomed into the house by Martha, who busies herself with meal preparation. Her sister, Mary, sits with the disciples, listening to Jesus.

Being a good host requires us to listen to our guests and to provide for the needs of our guests. Being a good host finds the balance between these things. Martha fulfils the role assigned to her by her culture, proving for the physical needs of others, but she misses out on time with Jesus.

We read that “Martha was distracted by her many tasks.”

How often are we distracted by a list of things that need doing?

It could be appointments; contacting friends and family; household chores like washing and cooking and cleaning; work; study; etc.

We hear a lot about work life balance and how hard it is for some people to achieve, especially with long commute times. 

But I wonder about our faith balance?

We need to listen, to pray, to read the scriptures; but we also need to put our faith into practice, to serve, to witness. Christianity is about being loved by God and loving others.

What this might look like for our congregation as a whole? How much time and energy do we spend on looking after buildings, balancing the budget and keeping the doors open? Are these tasks a means of enabling us to participate in the life God wants for us and the people round about us and beyond us, or are they a distraction holding us back from that life?

What would life look like if we broke free from the constraints of what we ‘should’ do, and be the person God made us to be? Not as a way of avoiding responsibility and service, but living as the person God made us to be.

I encourage you to reflect this week on who God made you to be, and what distracts you from being that person. 

.....

sermon one: Amos 10: 1-18

This passage from Amos begins with another vision. Last week it was the plumb line, showing how the people of Israel had moved away from the ways of God. This week the vision is of a basket of fruit. The paraphrase we heard this morning picks up the wordplay from the Hebrew. In Hebrew the word for ‘summer fruit’ and ‘end’ sounds similar, just as quince and quits sound similar. [Blake Couey, Working Preacher]

Why is God calling it quits with Israel?

Because of the way Israel is treating people.

Sometimes we don’t see the connection between how we live and the lives of other people, or the health of creation.

While the book of Amos is dated around 750 years before the birth of Christ, the themes are ones that are familiar to us today.

This was a time of relative stability and affluence in Israel, but this was also a time of corruption.

We live in a time when coal mining is killing the Great Barrier Reef.

We live in a time when child labour means we can buy cheap clothing.

We live in a time when shops are open almost every day of the year, and some retail businesses want to be open every day.

We live in a time when truth in advertising is a joke.

We live in a time when the rich can get loans with little interest but the poor pay over 150% interest.

For example, one online lender, will loan between 150 and 2000 dollars for 9 weeks – no credit check.  “The establishment fee is 20% of the amount borrowed. The monthly fee is 4% of the amount borrowed” If you borrow $1000, you pay $1320 over 9 weeks. 184% annualised interest rate. [http://www.sunshineloans.com.au/?gclid=CMHLoNHp980CFUNvvAodw4AIWg]

“Corporate fraud, exploitation of the poor, and ecological disruption are all consequences of the drive to maximize profit at any costs. People who live on the margins often suffer disproportionately from environmental abuse.” [Blake Couey, Working Preacher]

Just as in the days of Amos, almost 3,000 years ago, so it is today.

What can we do?

I have tried and it is very time consuming to check out the manufacturing trail for each item of clothing or food or homeware.

But we can make some changes:

·                     We can support people who are harassed because of their gender or colour or religion

·                     We can buy fair trade items when we see them – it is relatively easy with tea, coffee and chocolate.

·                     We can join with groups working for a fairer society.

·                     We can write to politicians and retailers

·                     We can stop expecting $5 t-shirts

“I, the LORD, swear on the Bible you so proudly wave,

........that I will not forget a single one of your mongrel actions.” [©2001 Nathan Nettleton LaughingBird.net]

God will judge us, not on how often we hold the Bible, or quote from the Bible, but on how we live out the love of God in action. 

followed by this hymn   http://www.newhymn.com/160ChooseLife.htm


sermon two: Luke 10: 38-42

Distractions, this is something I know about. There are often multiple things going on in my mind at the same time that is one reason I ask you to write me a note rather than tell me something at the church door on a Sunday morning.

Or I jump from one thing to another and another, and then back again.

One of the problems with mobile phones is that people walk around looking at the screen instead of where they are walking.

We live in a world where it is easy to be distracted:

Distracted by latest Hollywood romance

Or the crisis in almost any team sport

Or how the floor needs washing

Look at this picture  [Mind Full or Mindful]   https://sites.google.com/site/mbct4yppcdevon/_/rsrc/1378978316924/do-you-want-to-know-about-mindfulness/Mind-Full-or-Mindful-my-web-1.jpg

Are our minds full, full to overflowing; or are we mindful, aware, of that which is going on around us.

This week there was story in the Sydney Morning Herald about a young man from Port Macquarie. At age 16 Riley Bennett was told by a high school adviser he should train as a baker. He is now in third year of Medicine at the University of New South Wales. http://newsroom.unsw.edu.au/news/health/dont-sell-yourself-short-%E2%80%93-no-limits-indigenous-medical-horizons

This reminded me of the way our society puts expectations on us – to be pretty or brainy or strong or to not get ahead of ourselves.

When many of you were growing up, it was expected that after getting married a woman would not take on paid employment, at least not until the children were at school.

There is an expectation that people moving to Australia only do the jobs that no-one else wants to do. They should be grateful to be here.

We are all subject to expectations. Remember the story I told a few weeks ago, about the Wemmicks and grey dots and gold stars – these were used to label people and judge people.

Martha invited Jesus into her house – that is what Luke writes, it was Martha’s house. Even though Martha is the head of the house, she is still bound by the expectation that a woman will prepare food, and make everyone comfortable. Her sister Mary, who I can only imagine is a younger sister, sits with the disciples – but only men can be disciples,
…  well isn’t that the way it works???  

And why isn’t Mary helping in the kitchen like a good woman??

Expectations can keep us confined, to a place, or a state of mind.

I wonder what part expectations played in the high school advisor’s recommendation to Riley Bennet to be a baker, rather than look to University study. Riley Bennett is aboriginal.

We read of families where two or three generations are unable to find work – is this because people write of the family, or in the case of Mt Druitt a few years ago, a whole school?

Or is it that poverty keeps horizons low? When you are looking for how to pay the next bill, university education for your children just doesn’t seem possible. And it is increasingly difficult for people from lower socio-economic groups to go to university.

Mary broke the expectations society placed on women, she acted like a disciple. But she was also a gracious host. When you go and visit someone, you don’t want them to spend the whole time in the kitchen. Being a host means providing for the needs of your guests, but also to be with them.

Jesus saw Mary as a disciple.

Jesus said Mary has chosen the better part.

One commentator writes:

“Mary and Martha cannot be about the better thing that means who is better, who acts better, who can be better.

The better thing is the invitation to believe that you are who God sees you to be.

And that is precisely our problem. An inherent, systemic, omnipresent, ingrained, intrinsic, dysfunctional, disturbing belief that not all are worthy of God’s regard and love. The conviction, as Paul Farmer says, “That not all are not equal in God’s eyes. That all are not made in the image of God.” [Karoline, Working Preacher]

Do we really believe that everyone is created in the image of God?

Do we think that we are more worthy of God’s love and grace than someone else?

Riley Bennett told the Sydney Morning Herald:

“While students were sometimes underestimated by those around them, others limited their horizons by underestimating themselves"

http://newsroom.unsw.edu.au/news/health/dont-sell-yourself-short-%E2%80%93-no-limits-indigenous-medical-horizons

The better thing is the invitation to believe that you are who God sees you to be.

What are our expectations of women, indigenous people, refugees, Muslims?

What are the expectations that bind us?

What happens when other people move outside of our expectations?