Abraham,
Isaac and Jacob, the names roll so
easily off our tongues.
these
are the patriarchs of the Jewish, and Christian faith.
you
think your family is complicated, let’s have a look at this family tree.
look
at the chart – Terah, the father of Abraham had 3 sons and 4 daughters – that we
know of. [http://dwell316.files.wordpress.com/2013/10/biay-h-02-abraham-family.pdf ]
Abraham
is the father of Ishmael, Isaac and other children, at least 2 more sons – and 2 wives as well as having a relationship
with Hagar which resulted in the birth of Ishmael.
In Genesis
chapter 24, we read of the meeting of a servant sent to find Isaac a wife, and
Rebekah. a great great granddaughter of
Terah, who is also the grandfather of Isaac.
Rebekah
and Isaac have twin sons – Esau and Jacob. we heard about Jacob in todays
reading from Genesis. these two were fighting before they were born, and later
Jacob tricked his father Isaac into giving him the blessing that belonged to the
older son, which was Esau. so Jacob is running away from Esau.
and
the story continues with Jacob meeting up with shepherds, as Rachel comes to
water the sheep of her father, who happens to be Jacobs uncle. and Jacob wants to
Marry Rachel and her father says yes, but you have to work for me for 7 years.
then Jacob is tricked and marries Rachel’s sister Leah, and he works for Laban
another 7 years to marry Rachel.
what
a story – it starts with chapter 12 with Abraham leaving his country to follow
a call from God.
while
we often think of these people as the great fathers of the faith, men of God, but
as we read the story, we see they are no angels. so why might these stories
even be included?
Today
some families have stories handed down through the generations, stories of an uncle
who died in the war – or an great grandmother who travelled the world…well,
these are the family stories of the offspring of Abraham, stories of how
Abraham left the country he was born in, and that his son and grandson chose
wives from amongst his people. these are the family stories telling how they
would become a great nation, stories that define the family, which ends up
being a nation.
but
these people were not perfect, just like us they had decisions to make. and as
we look back at their lives, some seem hasty and poor choices.
what
of our decisions?
looking
at the parable in Matthews gospel we read of a farmer who sows wheat, and yet
mong the wheat are some weeds, or more specifically tares. Tares is a specific
kind of weed, which looks like wheat when it is young. you don’t risk pulling
up the young plants as it is difficult to tell the wheat from the weeds. and
this was before machines planted wheat in rows, seed was scattered by hand, as
we heard about last week.
the young
plants look quite similar, but when the seed head develops it is a different
shape to wheat. so you need to wait for the right time to separate the wheat
from the tares.
what
make of this parable? – well looking at the explanation, I suggest this is a
parable that tells us to leave the judging to God – you can’t tell which is wheat
or weed early in the piece, so just leave for God to work out.
I wonder
who are the people we choose to treat as if they are not worth anything?
who
are the people we try and exclude?
but I
wonder if this parable doesn’t also remind us, that like Abraham, Isaac and
Jacob we are not wheat or weed, we are both.
this
contemporary reading looks at Abraham, Moses, a woman, and Paul. [from Spill the Beans]
an image: a matter of perspective https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=894074757288596&set=a.188695787826500.54678.188533647842714&type=1
life is not simple,
families can be complicated,
options can look similar
choices unclear
but God used Abraham and Isaac and Jacob, and their
offspring
Dear Lord, our lives are coloured by ambiguity
and we don’t always know the right or best thing to
do.
But we do know that your love is guiding us
and that you have called us to live as your people
in the world. When we face hard choices,
give us eyes to see the best path forward
and the courage to follow it.
When we make mistakes, forgive us.
When we are hurt by our choices, comfort us.
When we hurt others, help us to reach out to them
in love.
And above and beyond all these decisions,
remind us that you still love us
and call us back to this place
that we may be forgiven, renewed, called,
and sent forth once more as your beloved children.
In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen. [David Lose]